If you don’t know what the Nofap Philosophy is, read this first.
The Nofap flatline is a period of complete or partial loss of pleasure or satisfaction from rewarding experiences caused by abstaining from self-touching and adult content.
The Nofap flatline occurs when your brain is recovering from no longer receiving the hypernormal stimulus amount of dopamine produced from PMO. A Nofap Flatline is a dopamine detox from PMO. A flatline can feel like an intense distance from happiness, motivation, confidence, and optimism. It feels like the only cure for it is PMO, which is always a lie. Experiencing a flatline is experiencing the withdrawals from hypernormal dopamine releases. No different than a withdrawal from drugs.
Going through the flatlines are the price to pay to getting back to a dopamine rewarding state.
Because of how powerful PMO is from a dopamine perspective, someone who is an addict isn’t sensitive enough to feel the small amounts of dopamine that comes from rewarding behavior, like making progress towards mastery. They don’t get to feel the small pleasures of life. Someone who follows the Nofap Philosophy feels good following their positive habits, even if they require discipline and are difficult, because they are sensitive to the dopamine rewards that come from these activities. Completing an assignment, closing a sale, scoring in basketball during practice, etc.
When you’re addicted to PMO, you’re numb to small wins, and your big wins don’t feel as good.
The most common periods of Flatline occur:
1. The first three days
2. The second week
3. End of month one
4. Mid and end of month two
It takes around 90 days for most people to feel like they are back to a dopamine-sensitive brain. If you cannot go that long without PMO, you are addicted. Once your brain resets, you can feel pleasure for completing tasks, improving at skills, and doing challenges in your life. This is the way you are meant to feel.
Nofap Flatline Strategies
Change your environment
Changing your environment is one of the best ways to beat a Nofap Flatline and prevent a relapse. Get away from the place where you normally PMO. Go on a walk, or go to the gym. REWARD yourself for not giving in to the temptation and get coffee out, guilt-free. You need to reward yourself for doing the right thing so you continue to do it.
Getting away from the place you indulge makes you feel less attached to the ritual. A change of philosophy comes with the destruction of one ritual and the creation of others.
Ideally you can go outside and somewhere with bright sunlight, as the sunlight is shown to increase dopamine production. Spending time in nature, hiking, trail-running, or going on a walk somewhere in the woods is ideal because you cannot relapse, you get dopamine from the training, the sunlight, and being surrounded by plant life.
Vigorous exercise
High-intensity training releases endorphins like dopamine. When the trough is to dry, you need to make it rain(dopamine). This philosophy is not just for a Nofap Flatline; anytime you are down, you need to train intensely. Hard-training will give you a reward that will make you feel better.
Sadly, 40% of adults in the world are overweight. Almost 70% of Americans are. We eat too much and exercise too little. You need to adopt a Body Mastery that becomes a path you can follow. Whenever you feel down and depressed, or a lack of dopamine, you can turn towards your body mastery which will keep you healthy, and refresh your mind so you can continue a mental pursuit.
Meditate or breathing exercises
A Nofap Flatline usually comes with negative self-talk in your mind. First, understand that all negative self-talk must be destroyed in your mind by countering it with positive self-talk. This is a tenet of the philosophy. Breathing and meditation helps calm the mind, which can take away thoughts telling you to do something that goes against your philosophical code.
One downside of meditation for a Nofap Flatline is the potential lack of dopamine released, as compared to hard training. So meditation should be done after or alongside of hard physical training.
Hang out with the boys
If you don’t have some boys, you gotta find some boys. Hanging out with friends is shown to increase positive chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and more. Ideally you can do something active or productive, instead of being inactive and consuming entertainment.
You also cannot relapse when your with others, so you immediately remove the ability to fail.
Get out of bed as soon as possible
The bed is the primary location for being intimate. If you’re trying to stop being intimate with yourself because you don’t like how it feels, get out of bed as soon as possible. When you wake up, get out of bed. You can even make your bed and lay on top of it. Ideally, you leave your bedroom. What you want to avoid is waking up, staying in bed, and looking at your phone. Because your phone is where adult content is, and the bed is where intimacy occurs, we must leave our beds to break down the ritual we are trying to destroy.
Wait
The best thing you can do is wait.
“I can wait, I can fast, I can think.” Said Marcus Aurelius.
The Nofap Flatline will pass. If you can make it to 90 days, you will never have a flatline again. And you’ll feel rewards from the path.
22 comments
Man this arricle is just so brilliant. I am in 15-20 day timeline of the first month and its so tuff. I feel like a dead meat with no willingness to do anything. To stop PMO i even quitted my bedroom and sleeping in hall 😀 but yeah i think i need to change the environment to overcome flatline. Its worst, thanks mate. I am also looking forward to read your other articles as well. Keep writing .
Glad you found it. Life feels better without masturbation to many people.
You need to reach all young men and teenagers… to let them know and realise the other perspective. Was emphasized as Brahmacharya in Ancient Hindu culture , and religiously practised , has now been replaced by contemporary Western thoughts.. porn , masturbation and unbridled sex is the order of the day …. this needs to be revisited.
This is akin to drug addiction cannot be overemphasised
Thanks for the endeavour.
Thanks for sharing. I want to research what you mentioned. More content is coming. I’m taking a short break while in school.
I AM CURRENTLY ON FLATLINE !! DAY 18 .. I AM DEPRESSED .. I FEEL HOLLOW INSIDE. I KNOW I AM GOING THROUGH REWIRING PROCESS WHICH MIGHT TAKE SOME MORE TIME .. I STILL GOT SOME EARLY BENEFITS – MORE FOCUS, NEED LESS SLEEP , BETTER CONCENTRATION BUT FLATLINE IS ACTUALLY HARD .. I AM FEELING ALL TIME LOW .
ONWARD INTO GREATNESS.
THE JOURNEY IS DARKEST BEFORE IT’S END.
QUITTING IS DEFEAT | FAILURE IS A FIGHT
Now the day 323 of my NoFap journey. It’s damn hard to move forward when it’s flatline comes to me at 2-4 month. But! I survive this! With God’s help, i make thigs go forward. And from than – the new me, come’s to my body and my soul! Thanks everyone who bring this knowledge to mens!
Have any of you felt extremely tired during the flatline period? Like your feel very tired, your heart beating so fast, shortness on breath, etc. I have read the forum about the nofap withdrawal symptoms and seems like some guys experience severe symptoms during their journey to stop their addiction.
Most experience adverse side-affects when stopping. It’s theorized that it has to do with the dopamine drought where normally Fapping would create a dopamine surplus in the brain. So you don’t feel reward chemicals when you stop fapping. Once you reset, you’ll feel dopamine from things you used to love again.
Man…I got a dopamin surge when you mentioned Jordan Peterson’s self authoring program…..I am a fellow fan of him too…..Thanks for the info too👍
We are happy you found something you liked in the article.
I am 18. I have been addicted to **** since i was probably 14. I have been on a nofap journey for nearly 31 days now. I feel… Alive right now. My self esteem has sky rocketed and i have realised the more i keep myself away from lewd stuff the easier it is for me. Workout helps significantly to overcome pmo. But flatline sucks i won’t lie. It’s really really hard at time to keep going. Sometimes it feels what is the point of doing this? Many of my friends fap regularly and are still active and lively, but i am doing this for me and quitting **** and fap is going to be the biggest challenge of my life but i am ready to take it head on. Enough cowering and lazing ,it’s time to actually overcome for real! Thank you for such an amazing post! You are really helping the youngsters by showing us the right path!
Ash,
Your words are touching. We are so grateful you shared them with us. It brings me a tremendous amount of joy that Nofap is improving your life. You are the amazing one, not us. Please, do not give up. You can do this. We believe in you.
Hey, this was actually very interesting and helpful to read, thank you very much for sharing the knowledge.
I am officially starting my Nofap journey today, let’s see how it goes.
O.
Good luck.
Great article! Thank you very much. I’m on Day 6 though. Wish me best!
Thank You! Very much!
I stumbled across this article looking for assistance overcoming **** addiction of 30+ years. I don’t know who I am without out but sex is impossible, so I must change and rid myself of this disease. Honestly, I’d rather have the real thing than pictures and video. As I write this I’m only on day 1, so I’ve got a very long way to go. I’m determined. Wish me success!
You got this for sure! Stay diligent, train the body hard to get out excess energy.
THANK YOU SO MUCH MAN. IM ON DAY 11, THE FLATLINE IS HITTING HARD, FEARED POSSIBILITY OF RELAPSED THEN FOUND YOU. YOURE A LIFE SAVER
You’re doing great man keep it up.