Looking at girls on social media you will never meet makes you lonely. It takes away your energy, your desire that could be relegated to something productive for yourself.
Instagram girls aren’t real. You see photoshoots with makeup, angles, pumps, filters, and photoshop. “Instagram girls” want you to want them because your attention gives them profit. They’d rather take photos for hordes of men they’ll never meet than get a job, with a boss, at a low income; you can’t blame them; they are taking advantage of society, leveraging it to profit, which may or may not improve their lives.
Desperate, lonely, and sad men will comment or like photos of girls they don’t know praying for attention. They just want to be noticed.
You need to be fully aware of what you give energy to. You can waste years, decades, or your entire life chasing the opposite sex, instead of following the path.
If you give energy to something valuable, like a new skill, you’re rewarded. If you give money to influencer women online, you get nothing.
Only Fans, the website for subscribing to females to see them with their clothes off, made 900 million in 2021, and 2.5 billion in 2022. These numbers could be even higher.
Men without purpose, direction, or discipline are worth billions to those who would prey on them.
Only fans shouldn’t exist. You should be too busy and focused to pay for nude images of women you will never meet.
Your habits reinforce your self-image.
It’s easy to be confident when you’re waking up early, doing work that matters, reading, exercising, or falling in love with a real, live, human.
Masturbation to women who like you for money is not love. It is not self-esteem. It is not honorable.
Stop following women you’ll never meet.
Stop giving attention to people who only exist to capture it without giving value back. When you learn a new skill, or read a book, you invest time and money, and get something valuable in return. Masturbation material is not a good investment because it does not add tangible value to your life in anyway. Instead, it takes money, and precious life energy.
What you see without a screen is reality.
The internet is makeup for an ugly, disconnected society.
Feed your positive habits.
Seek authentic sexual experiences.
Self-fulfillment through accomplishment.
Negation: If you are following women on social media for non-sexual purposes, that is acceptable. This principle applies to sexualizing people you do not know, regardless of whether they are inviting that intention or not.
14 comments
Amazing Article – Very Timely and appropriate. Keep searching, learning, being – I want you to grow.
This is so true. Social media can be fucking awesome but at the same time it can be absolute poison. Very good point. I recently changed my phones display to black and white. Helps me stay away from social media.
Good post man.
Great article, really motivating. Thanks!
I’d like to offer one suggestion- Many parts of this article can be distinct articles in themselves.
Great!
I’ve been stalking, liking, commenting and jerking off girls for at least 7 years on the internet like a beta ghost. I found this article so good that I save it in PDF for good. I need to realize that I’m a 26 year old man and that, although it costs me to accept it, I wasted a good portion of my short life.
Sir, does this apply to real life as well? That the numerous girls you pass along the subway, to give them no heed? For I see them as pure distraction as well..
I believe so. But the purpose of these writings is for you to test and steal.
The purpose is to put your path–once you find one–above all else. So you don’t want anything to take you away from your path(s). if there is mutual attraction, say something. But don’t let a stranger occupy your thoughts and feelings. Ever. Let your path consume you.
I’ve been binging a lot of you’re articles and man do I feel elated. When you said “Dont look at women you dont know”, it made me feel like wtf have I been doing my past few years of my life. That really pierced my heart and even though I’m day 34 in a flatline, you make me have hope that there is light at the end of this tunnel. Thanks brotha.
There is brother. Be proud.
Yes, its very bad habit to see bikini babes, porn images, nudity on phone n its addictive, even hard to quit, life becomes aimless, confused world. Love to real loved ones not to screen…
We agree.
I come to this post whenever I find myself in a bad time, it’s like a lever to pull me out of the mud.
Honestly: social media, if it’s not to give you an extra or primary income, is a insane waste of time (let alone if you’re a man). I bet if magically all the women in [insert social media app here] disappeared, the men would go with them altogether.
Are you aware of the fact that we guys use Instagram as a fap database?
Yes.