Every guy wants to be an alpha male or wanted to be one at some point in his life.
Many men today, are lost. They identify as victims because they’ve lost focus on becoming strong, smart, and self-reliant; they’ve abandoned trying to become the greatest version of themselves.
Men don’t have mentors anymore and they don’t have fathers. School systems mostly contain female instructors.
Boys today are told that masculinity is bad and toxic.
Guys who haven’t abandoned the path but are barely making progress have a different set of problems. Their difficulties are much worse.
Masculinity is considered offensive today. Men are conditioned to be feminine, safe, and tolerant. Displays of masculinity are toxic; men even get shamed for sitting comfortably on a train. Manspreading.
Some “activist” made a chair to prevent Manspreading, which is essentially a wooden chair with blocks glued on the side so men can’t sit comfortably. The glue-block chair won an award for design; a nice way for the governing body to virtue signal.
Masculinity in Society
Male-only clubs aren’t allowed to be masculine anymore. The Boy Scouts are now the Scouts, but the Girl Scouts are still the girl scouts. And, the Girl Scouts are suing the Boy Scouts for copyright infringement.
Virtue Signaling is a complicated ordeal.
It’s concerning when it isn’t your behavior affecting others, but your behavior when you’re around those like you that’s the problem according to gender experts.
This isn’t whining though. That would be low-value. it’s a turn of culture that no one could control. To care about men’s rights is identifying with a weakness.
The strong don’t identify with their weaknesses nor do they glorify victimhood.
The strong don’t need to step into popular culture and be an activist for men; men should know how to carry and manage their lots, or express the willingness to learn. An volunteer for young boys who need role-models. That is activism.
Low-value men & high-value men
Low-value men don’t have goals.
They watch Netflix while swiping on Tinder or Bumble, chasing women. Spending time being thirsty. That’s what you do on a dating app. You spend time being thirsty.
Think about who you would consider a high-value man. Would they use Tinder or Bumble? This question will tell you about how you spend your time and the quality of your mentors.
Low-value men play videogames. Low-value men use Doordash instead of cooking for themselves.
High-value men have goals, dress well; you can achieve this just by wearing clothes that fit, even if it’s a T-shirt and chucks.
High-value men chase money and a purpose, knowing that a purpose is how you have a fulfilling life and money can be a scoreboard for you to chase after.
The difference between low and high-value men
The difference between low and high-value men is that high-value men have a purpose outside of sex.
Low-value men only think about getting laid. That’s all they want to do. They practice “game”. they go out to clubs–not to have fun–to get laid.
Low-value men are pussy hounds. They chase girls. High-value men never chase girls. They chase goals. This is the difference between the two.
Set aggressive goals and chase them. Don’t chase girls. Meet women while you’re on the path. Without goals, you will make women your priority; how unattractive.
Make goals in the gym to increase every one of your big three lifts. Take courses at a local college for fun. Go out to have fun and improve your social skills. Meet a girl on the warpath. Don’t chase her.
Love yourself, respect yourself, put yourself first.